I can't remove the upper yoke fixing bush .... part no 8 in the diagram:

It requires a 14mm hexagon (Allen Key). That isn't the problem - I picked one up ready for this - it's a 14mm oil plug key that I got from Halfords. It is designed to be used with a 3/8" socket drive.
So i tried to undo it using my 3/8" drive ratchet. It wouldn't move. I put an extension tube on the end and pulled all I dared - but stopped as I was a bit concerned that the ratchet mechanism would break.
I then found a 3/8" square that was part of an old car jack winder.That went into the 14mm hex key and (with an extension) I heaved again .... and things felt as though they were moving .... until I noticed that it was the steel jack part twisting .... on it's way to shearing (fortunately I stopped before then).



So ..... has anyone any ideas? There's no point in heating the yoke fixing bush - it has an external thread and screws into the steering stem - heating will only make it tighter. I can't heat the steering stem as I can't get at it.
I'm struggling here!